The Power of Letting Go: My Manifestation Breakthrough

hey this is Joseph Alai I was just about to erase this whiteboard it's the outline for the workshop upcoming called manifesting faster which is essentially a workshop an in-depth a deep dive on the fundamentals Advanced fundamentals of manifesting fast quick better stronger faster in the most effective way that lands predictable results and it made me think back on a story in 2013 or 2014 and I had just essentially broken up with someone and this was when I was really figuring out if it was possible to manifest a specific person or not so before I had ever really had any deliberate successful results there and um essentially what had transpired is there was it was messy right when we broke up it was messy I was heartbroken there was no contact between her and I and but nevertheless I wanted this I wanted this badly so I started to put techniques to the test I was living in New Jersey I didn't have a soul to talk to about this I had very I had some books but a lot of them I had already kind of proven useless because they said you couldn't even manifest people or things right which we all know by now if you've been you know following material that you actually can if you've been testing this yourself as well and I remember one day sitting in my office I was working at a software firm and I was essentially sitting there I couldn't focus on my work my thoughts were spinning I just wanted to be with her I just wanted her to answer me I just wanted um I just wanted things to go back to the way that they were but even better right but here's the thing my mind was so flooded with negativity and I don't mean that I was I wasn't even really a negative person but I just had the idea inside of me that this was not going to work now that was against my will those thoughts I didn't mean for those thoughts to come up but nevertheless a continuous inflow a flood of those negative thoughts those worst case scenarios those what if those what is she doing right now the what is who is she with right now and I think we all know these types of thoughts well um um it was bad it was bad and I remember at the time I was reading this book it's called as a man thinketh by James Allen it was probably my fourth time reading that book it's not a it's not a long read but it's very dense and I just remember thinking to myself if this is all 100% true as far as what we think we are what we think we manifest what we impress we manifest then I am screwed this is not going to work so anyway long story short what ended up happening that day is I made this decision that if I cannot stop then I will stop trying right if I cannot stop obsessing then I will stop trying because these laws of manifestation are absolutely set in stone what we imagine what we flood our mind with will inevitably be experienced and if I'm continuously obsessing that she is not going to be with me she's not going to decide to come back to me then it doesn't matter if a fraction of the time when I finally snap out of it I'm imagining this positive good end I'm going to be in a lot of trouble there's a lot of things that are going to happen in the middle and I remember that day specifically I mean I was feeling sick because of how how I I I just couldn't take it anymore these these these negative thoughts and so that was the decision that I made if I couldn't stop then I was going to stop trying and and what ended up happening was was things got progressively worse with the communication between her and I we started talking again but in a way which was even worse than it was when we weren't talking my insecurity levels were Rising I was battling holding on to the best of my ability it wasn't working out for me and finally one night something everything basically all exploded she decided to meet up with me I drove over near her house we met up and essentially someone who so things got so bad that I basically created a third party and this third party showed up and it it wasn't that it was shocking or surprising to me but it ended up there ended up being an argument and that argument turned physical and I just remember after the scuffle that unfolded between this guy and and myself I just thought to myself what am I doing what am I doing this isn't the way this is not how I do this I can't force this and this is not any intended outcome that I have I don't want to be getting into trouble I'm not a violent person what is going on with me so then and there once I got home once I um started messaging her again and saying answer me please you know nothing she she wasn't responding to me at all it was completely done and I realized that at that point and so I imagined one more time that night that we were together and the next morning I woke up I felt so miserable and my my mother saw that I was you know messed up cuz I had fought she was yelling at me and I finally just said you know what I give up I give up it's over right and I think a lot of us have been to a point of surrender before that was when I fully completely surrendered I realized that my mind was not capable at that very moment to to to to have control over what I wanted to to have control over and and so that was it right and so then the days basically that day passed and I felt somewhat of a relief I felt detached I hung out with some of my old friends I basically had my own mind space back my mental space right whereas this woman and this third party had rented space in my head for so long that I wasn't even myself anymore and that was Freedom right there but here's the part that has to do with manifesting right and this is one interesting part that after the end I can look back on and say wow that was how it's done so within 3 days of the point where I had fully cut ties stop talking completely Let It Go I was finally beginning to heal and I started to realiz realiz some of the messed up things that were happening beforehand that weren't just my fault right cuz a lot of times it's not just me I've talked to a lot of people and this guilt or this shame that ensues within me or you or or someone whoever else um it doesn't have to only be owned by me meaning a lot of times I take more guilt or more um responsibility than actually was my fault right because relationships are a two-way street and so aside from manifesting manifesting aside I I had come to the conclusion that you know this this girl probably wasn't right for me right but this is the interesting part right once I parted ways once I changed my mindset I didn't even go after anybody else I just because I you know I was fresh out of it I I I changed my mental direction but I remember I remember this specifically the day there was like probably 3 or 4 hours pass without me obsessing over this girl she texted me she texted me and I looked at it I didn't answer then she texted me again then she texted me again and the next thing you know she was asking me to hang out and then she was asking me to come back and she was asking me to be with her and she meant it she was begging she was literally begging for me to come back and be with her she said she had made the biggest mistake of her life she's had a couple of days to think about it now mind you we had multiple days in that span of time beforehand where we didn't talk but this right there was no ending on my behalf I didn't say hey I'm out of here peace I just made the decision I said forget this screw this I'm out of here right it was it was difficult but at the same time it was something that I needed to do well she was begging and pleading and it was something that it really clicked in my mind and so this story itself lends to the fact that Obsession can get in the way but releasing or allowing it to fade out of your mind is one of the fundamental demands of manifesting a specific person and so the truth is is that after after that happened after she was begging me and I'm talking about for days right I had at least had the common not the common sense I at least had analyzed the situation with the obsession gone and looked at what my part was what her part was and I really realized even though you know it's kind of like a revelation that we weren't good for each other so I decided not to continue the relationship but nevertheless the the it was real the begging was real the the pleading was real the please come back was real it was almost like the tables were turned and so this letting go after this extreme intense imaginal axe once that Obsession and doubt and insecurity faded as as well as dropping that desire that's when it was like a catapult shooting forth so this is one of the ways from which I realized I could speed up manifestations if I was able to get a strong enough imaginal act and then get it and then drop it clean enough this is something that over the span of time I have done time and time and time again now and so it's just one of many different techniques and ideas and skills that I use to manifest as fast as I possibly can but here's the thing this stuff is not you can't read this in a book you can't really be taught this stuff or it hasn't existed so to speak a lot of this comes from experience right for me personally I am grateful that since 2011 I have been testing ing this day after day taking notes using the scientific method to kind of see what's true and what's not true about manifesting but that is what this Workshop is about it's about boiling down and simmering down these events and experiences that have happen time and time and time again where patterns emerge that we can quantify that work every single time it's not just me that these work for either I am so thankful and so blessed now since my obsession is taking experiences and boiling them down to generalizations that may work unfortunate that thousands of people have told me their stories too so the laws quote unquote that I kind of extract from experiences of how to manifest I can see how um other individuals the self-same laws are working for them as well and so like I said this stuff isn't really it's not readable in a book for inance like yes I could write a book right now it would be of tremendous help but this stuff isn't being shared everywhere is more about what I'm trying to say and so that's what this Workshop specifically is about right so manifesting faster comes from very specific fundamentals over nearly a decade of deliberate and systematic testing in order for me to have mastered it myself but finding that these laws are applicable for everyone that uses it at their command that's kind of what the vi P program is about so that those who are willing to learn and wanting to learn can get all this information and systematic step-by-step instructions of how to do things like Drop it how to do things like imagining properly or know if you're thinking too much about it or what actions to take in order to get your manifestations so if you are interested in more laws or systematic 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not up to suggestion it's not up to opinion this stuff has definite laws which are quantifiable which is what I've spent the last decade of my life doing so thank you for watching this definitely get involved with this sign up now so you can there's only a few days left so get involved right now and thanks for watching I hope this was