Manifesting With Joseph Alai LIVE: Foundations in Creation, MASTERY of Reality
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sorry about that my computer froze let us ensure that that does not happen again I definitely want to get to the questions that were asked of me before so I do apologize about that you never know what's going to happen so let us continue on with that answer that I was giving before and I was basically going on long story short about how to change things that are always in your face including physical attributes and permanent things that people say is never fixable so at this point I said that I got some inspiration reading and someone had mentioned a well-adjusted man and I thought wow if that were true that would entail that I would be able to essentially finish things stay on track of things not be bounced all over the place and so I started writing down what a well-adjusted man would look like what he would do how he would react to certain situations in work in love in his close friendly relationships to himself to others imagining all of these things related to the self-adjusted man and as I Define that I began to throw on that imaginal conversation before I did anything I would literally think to myself how would the well-adjusted man act to this how would the well-adjusted man think about this sometimes I would have to brainstorm and force myself instead of taking on the function of Joseph Alai literally forced myself to take on the well-adjusted man and I did this for about I'd say man it became a habit very quickly the first day after about 10 minutes it literally went on in my mind all day until I went to bed and then the next morning I woke up as the well-adjusted man as well it wasn't natural so to speak at this time it still was a deliberate forcefulness of thought coming from the point of view of a well-adjusted man but nevertheless it became easier and I also was writing down different things I was beginning to discover about this self-adjusted man that I was creating inside of myself I wrote down different scenarios I still would brainstorm if it wasn't sometimes I would have to say how would the well-adjusted man think about this and I would have to kind of manipulate myself to to think that way even if I didn't want to but again I was the well-adjusted man so it became easier I did that for about two days and then after that meaning one full day basically where it was probably 70 of my inner thoughts was well-adjusted man meaning I did it on purpose and deliberately and writing down I did it again the next day but it was less because there was less to discover and it wasn't as difficult anymore and then ultimately for the next few days after that I if I needed to I would switch my mind there but it kind of like was embedded in me a little bit I wasn't a fully new person or anything by any means whatsoever at this point it was still really just imagining but it was interesting how my mind first grasped on for life and had a real interesting fun time with this and then slowly but surely kind of lost interest as I discovered all the ins and outs of this well-adjusted man well the interesting thing in the end that came about was about a week later I went to take my medicine at night and I realized I had taken the last pill of my medicine for my mental condition at the time I call up I was nervous I didn't think anything about it I called up the psychologist who had seen for years and said hey I just need a refill which was no problem they just give me a refill and then they'll book an appointment but at this time it was weird the phone line was disconnected then I called back the next day with the website had changed it was a different line I left a message about hey I need this and that and again these people are great never had a thought in the opposite direction to think about them and then ultimately what happened was I just forgot about it I ran out of medicine I forgot about the medicine they called me back once but they never called me back again and then it wasn't about a couple weeks later where I realized oh my gosh I hadn't taken my medicine I feel perfectly fine they never called me back and I was off of it never had a withdrawal symptom anything like that and so I give you that story to say that creating a new persona and wearing it in your mind first of all that doesn't mean that you're forcing yourself to conform to it at that moment meaning the change will happen at that exact moment but instead what will happen is you impress your subconscious mind and a bridge of incidents will unfold that will force you to become the person that you're entering into your mind so I had no connection to my mind with this whole bipolar II thing that I was diagnosed with and the well-adjusted man had no I had no connection had no intention but it was a natural progression I manifested myself being healed of something that they said I could not be healed of and as a result it was a natural forcing me off of the medication if you see what I'm getting at do not imagine something and then just stop taking medication that doesn't work I know people who have done that had seizures and crash on the highway which is not smart you imagine and then you will be forced to become that person so imagine and have conversation from the point of view of a person who you want to be and no matter what the outcome is you're looking for it will happen automatically now what else changed after I put on that thought process of a well-adjusted man a lot of things change that I didn't even intend but well adjusted is always a good thing and I knew that and that's what I had imagined and began to play the part of and kind of analyze and figure out and explore this well-adjusted person as I have these inner conversations in my mind and ultimately was some of the changes I still haven't even been able to recognize but some of them were profound such as revelations in ways of working revelations in ways of relationships Revelations and ways of consistency in my decision making so this was something that doctors had said was permanent that it was hereditary that there was nothing I could do to change it it was in my face all the time it caused me a lot of pain a lot of suffering and it took and there were years in which I had tried to distinguish this problem inside of me and it's it's results where its manifestations as being someone who was inconsistent and not adjusted were devastating but when creating a well-adjusted man it changed my entire life so what do we take away from this right and this happens with things that are pressing things that are continuously in your face things that a single imaginal act or a single belief doesn't resolve the way we do this is we or that what we find or derive from this is figuring out not only the end scene that we want figuring out beliefs that if we're true would help us get our manifestation or in other words on the contrary if we don't work on beliefs we'll get stuck and our manifestation will not be fulfilled but then ultimately figuring out a way in a regular on The Daily especially if we have things in our face a lot we want to make sure that instead of reacting to our negative thoughts and people acting a certain way towards us meaning waiting for something to happen and then we switch our thoughts to oh I'm in perfect health all on this it is completely ineffective if you compare it to the way I just demonstrated which is instead of waiting for a negative thought to come up and then switch it with what you want you deliberately inject thoughts into your mind in advance meaning control the way in the path of your inner conversations to begin with that way you are not in a reactive mode you don't have to wait in fact it will be fruitless really it's so difficult how many of you have been told or watching videos when a negative thought comes switch it around it's entirely worthless it doesn't solve the problem at all you're only fighting against symptoms instead of the cause the cause is our state of consciousness the state of being if we are ill if we are in pain if we are suffering we must go in and change our core which is beliefs which is inner dialogue and then it's our imaginal act and this is how we change physical ailments um mental disorders diseases and things of this nature that's how you will get it so I hope that was helpful to you all right what do we got next I got all these from before so if you all can um if you want to donate at your own Leisure that's up to you but I have so many questions here I don't think I'll be able to answer any more as of now if you donate from this point forward so so if that was what you wanted to do and I do want to say already I wish I had the names of these people but this because it only shows me the number in their icon but there's someone with a teddy bear who donated 50. there's someone who has is that a person I can't tell or smoke that don't need 50 oh my gosh and then 20 and then another 50 I mean it's shocking okay how can I manifest stopping a people pleaser we do this by I guess the answer to the question that I just gave you as far as the fundamentals um first of all imagine what what would you be if you weren't a people pleaser you have to map that out think of that use a dictionary use your experience and think how would your life be different if you were not a people pleaser and then begin to imagine situations where you're not a people pleaser how would you look and feel and act if you were not a people pleaser right what's the opposite of it use a thesaurus and then also have a conversation with someone internally about how you used to be with people pleaser but you're so grateful because now you are uh and then Define what you are instead that's a really important concept that's going to be the way I provided that manifestation works but then non-dual teachers say that manifestation is for the ego and as long as we desire we will never be fulfilled what are your thoughts about non-duality what an awesome question so I believe I am a non-dualist which to non-dual teachers they will say that that doesn't make sense but again this is why I have my own independent perception and don't go you know follow the standard train of thought because it's not fully inclusive the issue of manifestation some of them ignore it entirely but you cannot get a full picture of reality until you address manifesting so do I believe that manifestation is for the ego and as long as we desire we will never be fulfilled I believe that that is a blanket statement that is an easy excuse that's kind of a robotic reply when talking about certain things in the objective world that is not particularly absolutely true I believe to a large degree um manifestation is something that just satiates the ego and as long as we desire certain things will never be fulfilled I do believe that to a large degree as well I believe like I do not exercise my my um my privilege to manifest unless actually I believe that things are perfect the way they are but they could be cool if they were said way so I don't my entire perception has changed from the very beginning of needing things in order to be happy that whole aspect has changed and converted to more or less everything is perfect the way that it is because it really is if it wasn't then they couldn't happen because everything is manifested from God and when I come from a place of extreme lack and discontent as if things aren't perfect you of course can manifest from that point of view but I believe the fruits of your labor are so much more pleasant if you feel things are perfect and they will just be a different kind of perfect meaning if it didn't happen it would still be cool so um I also believe that non-duality is the only way I believe that we are all God that all of this is God that this is all awareness that we are awareness and that we are only being magnified by our true self that my mind isn't who I am that's the ego and that I am just awareness not just I am awareness and I also believe however that in order for awareness to experience anything I had to create this objective world to make it appear as if there are two and in that that means there is an objective world that means there is a world and it's there because it's perfect and so because it's there why not activate and exercise the power freely given to me by myself to experience this world in its more Blissful state right and so I believe that I respect many non-dual teachers in fact many of them I more or less idolize but I also keep my I mean we know manifestation is legitimate we know that we are given this this privilege for a reason because that's who we truly are so why say oh we shouldn't manifest it doesn't make sense because no matter what we are always manifesting always so I I feel like a lot of the non-dual teachers perceive manifesting as an action rather than something that's inherent and that they disregard the idea that we're going to create rather than or whether we're in a peaceful State of Mind meaning just the I am state or if we're in this physical world I believe they overlooked that and think if it's more as something that you're doing rather than something that's happening just like awareness is happening so for those of you who are not non-dual students or Believers you may be saying what the hell are you talking about Joseph um but suffice it to say that um we'll leave it at that leave it at that good question affirmations for manifesting a new apartment job specific person bring it back to the foundations right what are the foundations the foundations are the same thing as you would imagine anything else you need to embody in your consciousness the images if you already have it meaning if you were saying something now from the point of view of the person who has what you want what would you be saying man I have a new job I'm so happy I have a new apartment I love that I'm with this person that's all your job is to do is to embody the consciousness of yourself if you are in the future having that new apartment having that new job having that specific person what would you be conscious of at that moment would you be conscious of what would your thoughts be what would your feelings be right manifestation again if you go with the technique you'll never understand this concept of manifesting you'll always be stuck you'll never get your results you've got to begin to think of why do manifestations I'm sorry why do affirmations work anyway why it's because of the function of awareness awareness recreate whatever it's aware of that's why you're here now and you're not there so you're you're the only responsibility of you to manifest what you want is to become aware of already having the apartment become aware of already having the specific person so how do you become aware of it oh well I could think from the point of view of already having it well how do I do that well maybe if I repeat something as if I'm thinking it okay I have a new apartment boom that's how the technique of affirmations was created so simple as that right simple as that that's how all techniques were created all right people say oh it's in the power of the technique it's not it's in the power of the foundation the fundamental that we're all God and that our awareness is God and our awareness creates and so what is awareness creating it's creating what we're aware of so become aware of what you want as if you already have it don't become aware of wanting it you'll never get it that's who you've always been that's why you don't have what you want become fully aware as if there never was a problem as if there never was a want you already have it that's how you do it I see Life slowly moving forward except for a specific person which appears to be getting worse visualizing and affirming but feel crazy because things appear to be getting worse I got blocked and now assess and now suspect a third party not sure how to proceed so the way to proceed is to think of why are things happening this way go back to the foundations what has created your reality the way that it is your subconscious what's in your subconscious imaginal Acts fears expectations judgments memories belief systems so you probably don't have anything in the way related to those other manifestations but with this you obviously have some sort of attachment issue you have some belief issues you have relationship patterns that probably have ended negatively and yet the normal manifester while listening to videos of people who say the technique is the way they're not going to tell you that you have a belief in the way you have some memory that's causing you pain that's recreating itself over and over your awareness cannot create anything except that which you give it so if you're not imagining negative things then what are you creating from you're creating from if it's not your thoughts right which it could be if you have fears and you're ignoring them by imagining well that's your answer you're not taking care of the root of your fears what's the fear he's going to leave me there I'm not going to be good enough there's always a competition every time I'm in a relationship the person chooses someone else I'm never good enough for the person that I feel like I'm good enough for there could be endless thoughts that you're overlooking in your mind and trying to cover up with an imaginal act because this is what we're taught this is what I was taught until I found out through systematic testing that we can't just Overlook it we can't just negate it we can't just run from it or hide from it we have to hit them directly we have to say what is causing these fears or if there is a pattern that's been unfolding in my life from relationship to relationship how would I summarize that in words and then we would say as I just demonstrated man every time I'm in a relationship the girl leaves me every time I take one step forward I take two steps back and then from there we say well then what would the solution be we want to find the opposite to those things that we feel are causing the problems if those are the problems we would say well what would the solution be every time I'm in a relationship it's always a trusting one I'm always good enough for the people that I love I always get in a relationship with my ideal partner I always trust my ideal partner I always am in a mutual level of affection with my partner I am always in a trusted relationship with my partners so you take the general statement not the specific especially if there's a pattern which in this case I know there is because there's been a thousand people who have had your similar situations that I've spoken to so you have to seize Imagining the end and start to go into your beliefs think back on past memories think on things that have similar endings think back to Childhood where you feel the same level of being unloved the same level of struggle the same level of fear and think where did this come from and then imagine an alternative event to that imagine it as if that never happened imagine your reality as if you never struggled imagine as if you were always the one in charge and everyone always sought after you right take it to a general level is what I'm trying to say and that goes for everything it's not the technique it's taking it back to the level of Consciousness and and knowing that our reality has only been created by us so if that's true right then what do we need to imagine to make it so that we don't have these negative beliefs that are creating these fears that are creating these nightmares that are creating these negative manifestations and that is how you go about doing it how would you go about manifesting a specific person that lives in another state in no current communication okay so I said in the beginning and I've said it multiple times that I'm going to answer giving the answers to the foundations in creation because no Technique No situation matters it's all in how does manifestation work you've got to realize that it has nothing to do with technique it has nothing to do with situation it has to do with the fact that even now is the combination of creations of what's in your mind meaning you have created how things are right now so if you manifested them and you know how you did that probably by imagining it and then you manifested this situation which is them moving to another state and communication no communication then how did you go from one to the next right you manifested that meaning being with them you manifested this you just don't know how you did it you have to figure out how you manifested this current state of problems okay because I promise you I promise you this I guarantee you're skipping over this part and going to how do I manifest them back I guarantee you but the problem is is that you're skipping this if you stop skipping this and focus entirely and completely on how did I Manifest this right now because you did no one else did it's only you how did you do it when you find the answer to that question you will find the answer to how do I Manifest this person in my life those are both one in the same because something inside of you is more powerful and more manifesting him moving to another state and him leaving you and you not being together there's being more energy and more focus in this meaning this current state of affairs because this is its natural state meaning this is your natural state so how do you change your natural state how do you change what you manifested all right I told I just wanted to say before um hey Amy I think I don't know if you saw but I just answered your question in great detail so I don't actually know if you saw it but if you didn't um meaning in the front of this video so just go back and Rewind and watch it and you will find the thorough answer to your question because I only just saw your second donation now where you're telling me that you had donated in the private in the previous message right oh actually no this is a current one we're talking about you right now sorry I was looking back at the prior affirmations one gosh that's silly so the answer for you Amy that's so funny the answer for you is you have to find out why you created this current situation and then you'll be able to figure out how to reverse engineer and manifest the removal of those beliefs because what is creating this situation right now meaning you guys are being a part is that it's either going to be a belief or negative thinking or fears or you or patterns that have played themselves over and over and in that case it is your beliefs that you need to change beliefs that you need to change meaning look at the world find the pattern and summarize it meaning what keeps happening that's negative